Unlike the aforementioned subject, your boyfriend will come and go as he pleases, without answering to anyone – especially to you.If you try to question his whereabouts or activities, he will become defensive.Put yourself on a pedestal, and never let any boyfriend make you feel as if you don’t belong there.Does the thought of having a no-strings-attached relationship excite you?He may, or may not, but he is not supportive either way. In the previous example, the “please” was left out intentionally. He will not say “thank you”, “you’re welcome”, “please” or even “excuse me” to you.“Honey, go pick up some soda for me.” sounds like a genuine request for assistance. It is because he is expecting you to comply with his requests.
Whether it is going to a baseball game, when you hate outdoor stadiums, or, even more harsh an act, makes you perform sexually against your will, he is NOT in love with you.
The subject will immediately transfer from your asking, “where were you? Belittling your self-confidence can be have very serious consequences.
” to his comeback remark about how you nag him too much, or something similar to that effect. Making you feel as if you are worthless without him, the controlling boyfriend will prey on times that you may be stressed the most.
A committed relationship is like a warm blanket of comfort.
But at times, all you want is the reckless rush of a rollercoaster ride that gives you a high and a racing heart, makes you feel dazed and confused, and leaves you back on square one at the end of it all.